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Allow us to help you enhance the pleasure in your life’s experiences. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/6216d3065d2e5d7fc9db72cf/d55f5c14-37cc-4318-b518-d5a4cdfd71e6/Untitled+design-22.png Home - How We Help: Invision helps mothers untangle their SELF from the intertwining roles of partner and mother. We begin by unlearning unhelpful societal “norms” and ideas about what motherhood and intimate partnership should be through evaluating them and creating a sensual lifestyle in each of your many roles. We help mothers to define their personal identity, their style of motherhood their idea of pleasure their brand of sexy We support mothers as they learn to prioritize themselves and their pleasure. We help mothers overcome past mental, physical, or sexual traumas by creating a safe space that draws on the client’s strengths. 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Learn authentic vulnerability Restructure their relationship with motherhood and intimate partnership Eliminate negative thoughts and feelings towards themselves as a mothers Eliminate negative thoughts and feelings towards sexual experiences Acknowledge and embrace socially “negative” feelings about motherhood and reframe them Trust themselves sexually Make self-love and self-care a priority Advocate for their sexual needs without guilt or shame Build confidence in educating their children about boundaries, self care and authenticity. https://www.invisionmore.com/about daily 0.75 2025-04-29 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/6216d3065d2e5d7fc9db72cf/c5d45443-36c9-4024-8b1e-dd77de2ab44b/c44cc1e5-3670-4fe9-94a4-611e862bea1d.png About https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/6216d3065d2e5d7fc9db72cf/601f6909-8f1f-42b3-b726-7614d995bc8f/Canva%2B-%2BPhoto%2Bof%2BWomen%2BSitting%2Bon%2BOrange%2BSofa.jpg About - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://www.invisionmore.com/authentic-parenting daily 0.75 2022-04-29 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/6216d3065d2e5d7fc9db72cf/893b9eb8-8b0c-408d-ac58-d0115ccd9ca8/Untitled+design-19.png Authentic Parenting - Are You Parenting From a Place of Fear or Faith? Have you ever thought to yourself, “This is hard.” “My children would be better off with another mother.” “I can’t do this.” “My children deserve better than me.” “I will never be like…her!” She is the “other mother,” the perfect parent you wish you could be. She attends every school meeting, bakes the cupcakes for the bake sale instead of buying them, and you’re sure she and the other mothers are judging you at every turn. And...that’s ok! I assure you that every mother has had these thoughts at one time or another. But what if you could parent free of the pressure to parent by someone else’s standard? What if you acknowledged your imperfections and celebrated your differences. I help mothers to parent from their most authentic self instead of parenting out of a sense of fear that you may not be “good enough.” While fear is a great motivator, it is fleeting and unsustainable. Working together, we will identify your strengths and how they can help you parent in ways that allow you to feel more confident in your role and encourage your children to follow suit! https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/6216d3065d2e5d7fc9db72cf/d9f753e5-4393-4373-ab49-b26a20494f2a/Untitled+design-21.png Authentic Parenting - A New Way… The good news is there is a new way to parent…a more authentic way. Let’s face it, parenting is rough! Yea, it can totally be trash..it can be and should be T.R.A.S.H! As I continue to grow in my practice, I’m finding that women, especially mothers, are finding it extremely difficult to live up to the myth of the “good mother.” T.R.A.S.H parenting is an acronym intended to turn the insults hurled at mothers who do not “measure up” on its head. T.R.A.S.H Parenting is a declaration that there is no one way to parent, but there are characteristics that benefit the parent-child relationship. A trash parent prioritizes their self-care because they know how their wellbeing positively impacts their household. They are thoughtful, rested, accountable, secure, and happy. All parents should be T.R.A.S.H Parents! At InVision we challenge mothers to lead with thoughtfulness. Although thoughtfulness is usually what we think of concerning others, exercising thoughtfulness towards ourselves is essential to modeling consideration, reflection, and introspection for our children & those around us. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/6216d3065d2e5d7fc9db72cf/893b9eb8-8b0c-408d-ac58-d0115ccd9ca8/Untitled+design-19.png Authentic Parenting - I Have To Be The Only One There can be a lot of shame in feeling mom’d out. However, shame cannot live in community, and I promise you you are not the only one! 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